I try to be pretty light on my possessions, but I can always use more inspiration to clear more stuff out. So I was curious to read The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up by Marie Kondo–though not so eager that I couldn’t handle waiting when 400 other people were in line at the library before me! The book got to me eventually, and it was interesting…though a little odd too.
A fairly slim book, Kondo lays out her method for clearing out possessions, and why her views are different than some of the conventional wisdom. She advocates for one massive tidying-up, and promises you will then be so inspired to keep things tidy that you will never have to do this again. It starts with discarding–but rather than choosing what to throw out, she recommends going through your possessions by category (clothes, books, papers, kitchen items, etc), picking up each item, and keeping only those that give you “a thrill of joy.” Naturally this means a radical reduction in what you keep. At that point, find a place for everything, and keep it that way.
At the root, I think she has some good ideas, though she gets rather hyperbolic about the universal and absolute success rate of her methods. Still, certainly cutting down possessions is key to keeping a home neat, and I absolutely believe in a neat home for inner serenity (or, as Gretchen Rubin says, “Outer order contributes to inner calm.”) I like the idea of only owning things you love…except Kondo doesn’t make much allowance for things like, say, a cutting board. I don’t love it, but that doesn’t mean I don’t need it.
But maybe Kondo loves all her practical belongings too. Which leads me to where it gets a little odd. Some of this may be cultural differences or translation problems, as the book was originally written in Japanese. Kondo waxes very enthusiastic about loving all your possessions, and also waxes enthusiastic about the way they love you back. Right down to your socks wanting to serve you, and you should place them properly in the drawer so they can rest when you’re not wearing them. Continue reading “Book Review: The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up”
We’re a long way into the Once Upon a Time challenge, and I’ve finally read a fairy tale retelling! Breadcrumbs by Anne Ursu was recommended to me by Katy (AKA, A Library Mama) long ago, and she was absolutely right. It was a wonderful retelling of the Snow Queen–loosely, though a lot closer than Frozen was!
Here, There and Everywhere by Chris Roberson was the rare book with such an amazing concept that, despite other reasons it really shouldn’t have worked, it completely did and I loved it anyway. I found this one looking for parallel universe books, and it is that—with a vengeance. I think it wins for sheer number of parallel universes involved, with time travel thrown in besides.